It's kinda like...

me:
"It's kinda like going to a party and you think you're looking pretty ok, when you hear a group of women near you [who think you can't hear] talk about how fat your ass is."

her:
"Oh my gawd, I think that's one of the most horrible things I've heard in a long time."

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Me, explaining being thrown under the bus over at AT:LA last week to my girlfriend...

I've recovered for the most part from that incident but wowzie...what a blow to the ego. Thanks for all your encouraging words below by the way it's very sweet.